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Head Lice

August 18, 2017PAL

When your child begins child care, preschool or elementary school, she runs a risk of head lice infestation. Many parents are appalled by the thought of their children having a case of head lice. Don’t worry, infestations are not harmful nor are they an indication of poor hygiene or dirty hair. Head Lice Facts Head […]

Nothing but “No!”

August 18, 2017PAL

Saying “no” is a toddler’s way of asserting independence by making choices. If this is one of your child’s favorite words, you might want to try some of these ideas: Give choices rather than telling the child what to do. When giving choices ask questions that have options rather than simple “yes” or “no” answers. [...]

Managing the Strong-Willed Child

August 18, 2017PAL

Some children seem to be born willful. As infants they are difficult to comfort. When they become toddlers they are disagreeable about everything and refuse to cooperate. Tantrums may be a daily occurrence. As they move through their school age days arguments are frequent and defiance is the norm. There is no doubt these children […]

Let’s Not Argue

August 18, 2017PAL

All parents and their children will argue at some point. Back talk, whining, begging and arguing are some of the most frustrating behaviors to deal with as parents. But like most negative behaviors the best defense is a good offense. Learning to prepare ahead of time for arguments can be the simplest way to avoid [...]

Drugs, Alcohol and Nicotine

August 18, 2017PAL

Growing up is hard work! During these “in-between” years adolescents are under tremendous pressures. They are learning to make their own decisions, yet they still need the guidance of responsible adults. Although adolescents do identify strongly with their peers, research shows that parents are the most important influence in a child’s life! They may not […]

Keeping Pre-Teens Out of Trouble

August 18, 2017PAL

Keeping Pre-teens Out of Trouble It is sometimes difficult for parents as our pre-teens start moving towards independence. We have become accustomed to our children depending on us for everything and may feel rejected as they begin to spread their wings. We may even feel somewhat fearful; is this the beginning of constant rebellion and [...]

How to Recognize and Reform a Spoiled Child

August 18, 2017PAL

It is not always easy to set limitations, boundaries and responsibilities for our children. In addition, following through with consequences takes a considerable amount of effort and determination. It is much easier to give in to their every desire, avoiding struggles and disappointment. However, if we sow the seeds of permissive parenting we will reap [...]

How To Put An End To Whining

August 18, 2017PAL

Whining, an irritating blend of talking and crying, occurs in many children 2-4 years of age and can cause frustration or anger for almost any parent. During this developmental stage children’s language skills are rapidly improving; however, they still do not possess the vocabulary necessary to express themselves when they are tired, cranky, hungry, or [...]

How to Handle Back Talk: Toddlers and Preschoolers

August 18, 2017PAL

“I can’t believe that came out of my child’s mouth!” One of the most frequent issues parents face with a child is back-talk. It can be frustrating, embarrassing, and can test even the most patient parents! So what can be done? First, understand that children of different ages use strong language for various reasons. Second, [...]